The Change Anger Pattern
Think of a time in the future that you are sure would have elicited anger in the past from you and allow yourself to feel differently about it now as you simply have changed the direction or spin.
Think of a time in the future that you are sure would have elicited anger in the past from you and allow yourself to feel differently about it now as you simply have changed the direction or spin.
Tags: Anger, Disorientation, Emotion, Feelings, Moment In Time, New Direction, Nlp Patterns, Pace, Richard Bandler, Sensation, Spin, Spinning
Sometimes both partners have reached some type of threshold….The problem is that, at the moment of threshold, a reevaluation takes that is retroactive.
Tags: Belief, Choice In The Matter, Defense Mechanism, Falling Out Of Love, Feelings, Long Term Relationship, Love, Partner, Pleasurable Experiences, Reevaluation, Relationships, Threshold, Unconscious Process, Unpleasant Memories, Variations
This is from my social media internet friend Sarah James and I think it is worth taking a moment to read and take in for yourself: Contemplation: Who am I? I realized something today that Empowered me and brought me to a place of Full awareness. QUESTION: Do you know at any time, that you [...]
Tags: Contemplation, Feelings, Friend Sarah, Full Assurance, Grand Scheme Of Things, Harmony, Instincts, Intense Emotion, Internet Friend, Mankind, Media Internet, Messengers, Negative Emotions, Observation, Pleasure And Pain, Sarah James, Scheme Of Things, Signals, Thought Process, Truth
What is the importance of listening? ‘People just want to be heard.” Bill Thomason When I teach Listening Skills in business trainings and public NLP trainings, a first intention is to broaden the definition of listening for people. What are we listening for/to anyway? The Computer model about information is Garbage IN/Garbage OUT. With regard [...]
Tags: Alignment, Aspects Of Communication, Bio Feedback, Cognitive Psychology, Communication Loop, Computer Model, Feedback Loop, Feelings, Flip Chart, Garbage, Human Information Processing, Intention, Internal Representation, Key Words, Listening Skills, Nlp Trainings, People, Regard, Subtle Cues, Thomason
Values are described as those things that we will expend time, energy and effort to either move toward or away from in life. A primary skill from my NLP Practitioner Certification program is learning how to elicit values. Values are elicited anytime you ask the question, “What is important about ‘X’?” I often say the [...]
Tags: Arguements, Asumptions, Coach, Conflict, Conflicts, Core Values, Feelings, Inequity, Miscommunication, Next Way, Nlp Practitioner Certification, People, Practitioner Certification Program, Regard, Self Interest, Siblings, Silly Things, Squabble, Time Energy, Whack